“Forgiveness: I like it but don’t teach it. Why? I’d rather work on dropping my judgment of another person and their actions…and if I do that, then there’s nothing to forgive (only love is left). Forgiveness means we let go of our anger or hate (that is useful) but not our judgment (and the turmoil[…]

“I receive many cards during the holidays with messages like, ‘Have a Happy New Year,’ ‘May you have a happy, healthy, prosperous New Year,’ or ‘Wishing you the best.’ These are super sweet and loving messages. “But I am partial to suggesting, ‘CREATE whatever New Year you want.’ Things will happen – yes! But it’s WHAT WE[…]